THE REWIRE4SUCCESS BLOG

LESSONS LEARNED ABOUT THE REBUILD

Here you'll find a collection of posts about the process of what it takes to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal from sexual addiction. Katie Kies, Co-founder of Rewire4Succes, writes compelling lessons drawing from personal experiences in her own marriage, years walking alongside women and couples doing this work, and over 10,000 hours of research and partnership with experts in neuroscience, addiction, trauma, and relationships, .

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10 Walls Every Couple Will Hit

10 Walls Every Couple Will HitKatie Kies Published on: 07/11/2026

There are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.

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The Enemy

The Enemy

The EnemyKatie Kies
Published on: 08/19/2026

How do you talk to a room full of women who have all been betrayed by their partner, about why it's not going to help them to see him as the enemy? (and live to post another day 😅)

Stage 3 - The Rebuild
The "Tale Of Two Competing Truths"

The "Tale Of Two Competing Truths"

The "Tale Of Two Competing Truths"Katie Kies
Published on: 07/16/2026

There are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.

Stage 2 - The Untangling
10 Walls Every Couple Will Hit

10 Walls Every Couple Will Hit

10 Walls Every Couple Will HitKatie Kies
Published on: 07/11/2026

There are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.

Stage 2 - The Untangling