Here you'll find a collection of posts about the process of what it takes to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal from sexual addiction. Katie Kies, Co-founder of Rewire4Succes, writes compelling lessons drawing from personal experiences in her own marriage, years walking alongside women and couples doing this work, and over 10,000 hours of research and partnership with experts in neuroscience, addiction, trauma, and relationships, .
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Katie Kies Published on: 07/11/2026There are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.
Katie KiesWhat if the signs you’ve been noticing aren’t about you being “not enough” at all?
Katie KiesTrust after betrayal isn’t rebuilt all at once, it happens in layers, and understanding which layer is missing can change everything about how you move forward.
Katie KiesHonesty and dishonesty. Two doors that both feel like the wrong answer. What's happening inside of him that's driving him to be dishonest with you.
Katie KiesIf this isn't real, then why does it feel like the ground just opened up underneath you? Let's talk about what's actually real here. Because almost none of it is fake.