Here you'll find a collection of posts about the process of what it takes to rebuild trust and connection after betrayal from sexual addiction. Katie Kies, Co-founder of Rewire4Succes, writes compelling lessons drawing from personal experiences in her own marriage, years walking alongside women and couples doing this work, and over 10,000 hours of research and partnership with experts in neuroscience, addiction, trauma, and relationships, .
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Katie Kies Published on: 07/11/2026There are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.
Katie KiesHonesty and dishonesty. Two doors that both feel like the wrong answer. What's happening inside of him that's driving him to be dishonest with you.
Katie KiesHere's why no amount of checking will ever be enough, and what actually helps a nervous system heal after betrayal.
Katie KiesThere are certain problems in this journey that don't feel like problems. They feel like walls. Massive. Immovable. Load-bearing. The kind you hit and think... there's no way through this.
