Support Circle gets you the valuable support you need live with a coach every week. Rewire & Rebuild gives you that, plus our courses to guide you through the steps for recovery, a monthly call with a coach who knows your story, and Derek Hart's weekly live Relationship Lab and Relationship Repair course.

Derek is the founder of Understand Each Other and leads the Relationship Lab, a weekly class built around real nervous system communication skills for couples. We recommend it alongside our own program because recovery work and learning to actually hear each other go hand in hand, so it's built into this tier as a vital part of this process.

Rewire & Rebuild starts with a 7-day free trial for both our membership and Derek's. You get full access from day one, and if you cancel before the 7 days are up, you won't be charged anything.

Yes. Start where you are. A lot of couples begin in Support Circle and move up to Rewire & Rebuild once they're ready to go deeper.

No. This is built for both of you. The partner rebuilding trust, and the partner recovering from betrayal. Recovery for the relationship is only possible when you're working together.

Life happens. Groups run every week, so you're never more than a few days from the next one and the replays will be posted shortly after. There's no penalty, no falling behind, just come back when you can.

You get one live call a month with a Rewire4Success coach, just for you and your relationship. It's where the course material meets your actual life. You'll get a link to book sent to your email once a month.