A VIDEO COURSE FOR WOMEN

You found something.

Now you can't unsee it.

A course and workbook to help you set boundaries, have calmer conversations, and make sense of what porn has down to you and your family.


The Porn Problem: What To Do When Porn Is Ruining Your Relationship


WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW

None of this makes you crazy.

Here's what it actually feels like to be where you are.

You're not sure if you're overreacting.

Everyone says porn is normal now. Every guy does it. So why does it feel like this?

You don't know who to talk to.

It feels too private for friends and a therapist may say it's your insecurities.

You can't stop checking.

His phone. His history. His eyes. You hate that this is who you've become.

You don't know what you actually want.

To stay. Leave. To go back to before you knew. All three some days.

The signature: a racing heart, a brain that can't stop, sleep that won't come, sufficating from feeling alone in this.

WHAT THIS COURSE IS

A guide to take you from confusion to clear decision making.

5

Video modules you can watch in in one sitting or stretch over a few weeks.

100%

Guaranteed to help you feel more clear on how to make more grounded decisions from here.

1

Decision that this course won't make for you: what to do with your relationship. That one stays yours.

This framework isn't opinion. It's built on four fields of research that explain what's actually happening inside you and inside your relationship, and hope for what it takes to change it.

01

Neuroscience

Why the brain gets stuck in patterns, and what it actually takes to rewire them.

02

Attachment

How your attachment style shapes the way you both reach for and pull away from each other in crisis.

03

Betrayal Trauma

Why discovery hits the nervous system like trauma, and how real healing actually happens.

04

Behavioral Addictions

How porn use functions like other behavioral addictions, and why willpower alone doesn't fix it.

BACKED BY A NEUROSCIENTIST

"Rick, Katie, and the team at Rewire4Success understand this process extremely well and this workbook provides excellent guidance on helping betrayed partners process their own feelings, emotional needs and set the appropriate boundaries in place to help initiate change."

Nate Shanok, PhD

Neuroscientist | University Professor | Researcher

Two-Time Author on Mental Wellness

Who's Guiding You Through This

Lived experience and clinical training, side by side.

Katie & Rick Kies

CO-FOUNDERS, REWIRE4SUCCESS INC.

7 years of lived experience, 10,000+ hours of research, 2 years walking couples through the exact education and work they did to get where they are in recovery and healing.

Ashana Kaiulani

Certified Health & Life Coach & Certified Trauma Specialist

Clinically trained in the nervous system side of betrayal trauma, guiding women through what's happening in their body as well as their relationship.

Inside The Course

Five modules. One steady path forward.

01

Why You're Here

For the moment right after discovery, when you're reeling, disoriented, and already wondering whether this is something you can move through or something you need to walk away from.

02

Porn Addiction & Betrayal Basics

Why you're checking his phone, losing sleep, and feeling crazy. The betrayal response explained in plain language, with ways to steady yourself today.

03

So How Do I Get Him To Commit To Recovery

This is where boundaries, calm conversation tools, and shared expectations come together, giving you a concrete way to invite him toward recovery without cornering him into defending himself.

04

Having 'The Porn Conversation

The actual conversation itself, plus what to do in the days after it, whether it goes well or the boundaries you set get broken.

What Our Clients Are Saying...

★★★★★

"This program is the first program I’ve found that puts such a significant emphasis on the betrayed partner and recognizes the pain and suffering they feel. This program recognizes that most women need way more than just the man “claiming he stopped using porn” in order to trust them again or heal."

~Khera
★★★★★

“I can’t overstate this: Rewire4Success is unlike any other program out there. It’s not surface-level. It’s not a quick fix. It’s deep, grounded in science, and built for lasting change — not just for the person struggling with addiction, but for the person who’s been impacted by it too.”

~Jessica
★★★★★

"When we first started this program I was in a very lost and desperate situation. I feel that we now have a fighting chance at really healing and being able to move forward with our lives. I am truly thankful for your program."

~Toni
★★★★★

"I am finally starting to feel heard. With new tools for communication, we can now share more truths with each other. Not every day is perfect, but he is really putting in the same effort that I do now."

~Whitney

*Testimonials from participants in the Relationship Rebuild couples recovery program.

RISK FREE GUARANTEE

Go through the modules, complete the exercises, apply what we teach. If you don't feel clearer, more grounded, and more equipped to lead the next conversation, email us within 14 days for a full refund.

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about the product and billing.

How long do I have access to the course?

You get lifetime access, including any future updates.

When will my workbook come?

We promise to ship out your workbook as soon as possible, within 24-48 hours.

Will I be able to implement these things right away?

Yes! The course is hands-on and teaches you to apply these tools immediately.

Is there any support available if I get stuck?

Yes! You can email us at [email protected] with any issues or questions.

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