REWIRE4SUCCESS IS NOW PARTNERED WITH DEREK HART
Trust doesn't come back through better arguments. It comes back through a nervous system that finally feels safe.
Derek Hart has spent three decades and over 41,000 counseling hours in the room with couples exactly like you. We've partnered with him so our community can learn directly from his work.
Derek's weekly workshops with couples are included with our Repair & Reconnect membership as a partnership between Rewire4Success and Derek Hart's Understand Each Other.
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a wall every couple hits in this journey
The "Double Bind" with no translation
The
"Double Bind" with no translation
Her Truth
She can't understand addiction. Not the pull of it. Not the pattern. To her, this was a choice, every time. And that means something. Something deeply painful and unsafe...
His Truth
He can't understand the betrayal. Not the way her world just crumbled beneath her with no net underneath. To him, he's trying, he loves her... so why does she keep making him feel less than human?
Two people. Same house. Same bed. Speaking languages neither one ever learned.
Both truths are real. Both deserve to be witnessed. Learning how to hold both is a skill.. one most couples were never taught.
LEARNING HOW TO LISTEN AND BE HEARD
This is exactly what Derek Hart has spent three decades teaching couples to do.
Watch real couples heal. By witnessing others, you see yourself. Save and rebuild your marriage.
BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE
MEET DEREK HART
Derek Hart is the founder of Understand Each Other and a pioneer in trauma-informed couples work.
Since 1990, he's logged over 41,000 hours in the room with couples. Watching the same patterns. The same walls. The same moment two people stop hearing each other and start defending themselves instead.
Derek Hart
Relationship Coach, Speaker, and Writer.
Why are we at Rewire4Success so passionate about partnering with Derek? Because Derek teaches something we realized we've been missing for some time now, and it can hinder healing and recovery for many couples.
It's something us, and most other people have never been taught. Relationship conflict is not a communication problem... it's a nervous system problem.
Drawing from years of experience in attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy, Derek built two things our program didn't already have:
The Relationship Repair Method, where couples can learn the skillsets it takes to reconnect, together. And The Relationship Lap, where couples work with Derek live, applying the concepts they've learned.
He's direct. He's deeply compassionate. And he won't let a couple hide behind blame or defenses, because underneath both is always the same thing: two people who forgot how to feel safe with each other.
Derek's work has helped thousands of couples find their way back... not by trying harder, but by finally understanding what their nervous systems were trying to say all along.
INcluded in THE rewire4success Repair & reconnect membershp
Here's what you'll get:
● . The Relationship Lab: watch real couples heal, live, every week
● . The Relationship Repair Method Coures
● . The Infidelity And Betrayal Course
● ..A community that knows exactly what this feels like
● . Daily guidance & answers from Derek
● . The Rewire4Success Relationship Rebuild Couples Centered Recovery Course
Each class begins with a focused lesson from Derek, followed by guided work with couples. Come listen, learn and witness healing.
"Relationship conflict is not a communication problem... it's a nervous system problem."
- Derek Hart
TESTIMONIALS
What others are saying
"For me it would be worth 10x what we paid."
"I didn't imagine it would be possible before working with Derek. Our dynamic and our pattern has permanently shifted." - Tess & Rafa
"When I watched the videos from the lab, I cried really bad."
"I felt I wasn't the only feeling what I'm feeing. It gave me the words to see what's really happening. So I'm really appreciative of that."
"He translates for us, to each other."
"Derek is able to take whatever emotional, jumbled mess comes out of our mouths and able to reflect it back very succinctly in words that we often don't have access to ourselves. " - Marsha & Rob
"It's simple, and it's good."
"You help us set up a safe space where we can feel each other again. It builds this little bridge to get us out of this imprisonment that we fall into of not being able to understand each other." - Leslie
FAQs
Do I have to be a part of the membership to attend the class?
Nope. You've got options.
Work with Derek on his own, or go further. Sign up for our Repair & Reconnect membership tier, and you get everything Derek offers.. plus Relationship Rebuild, and our weekly live classes. All of it built specifically for couples navigating the impact of pornography and sexual addiction.
Want to try it first? Sign up for a free 1-week trial. Sit in on all the classes, check out the courses and see how it feels - no commitment.
To sign up with Derek alone, use this link: https://www.skool.com/derekhart/about?ref=628bcdb6bf5c4c569f3519d75242f042
Or, to sign up for the Repair & Reconnect membership, click here.
Do I have to talk or turn on my camera?
No. You're welcome to just listen in.
We'll always love having you fully engaged... that's where the most connection and change happens. But we get it. Sometimes you just need to lurk for a while before you're ready to show up out loud. That's okay too.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. Our coaches and Derek hold a strict confidentiality and privacy policy... always.
What's shared in the class stays in the class. It doesn't leave that room. Replays are available so members can revisit a session, but they're never made public, and never shared outside the class without permission.
What if I miss a class? Can I get a refund?
No worries if you miss one. The replay will be up within a week, so you can catch it. Because of that, we don't offer refunds for missed sessions.
How do I join once I'm signed up?
Once you're a member, you'll have access to the Rewire4Success Weekly Class Menu in our app. Each week you can click there to view the calendar and join your live class. For Derek's class, you'll log into Skool and click on the calendar there to join live on the day of the class.
